To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul.
Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.
But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes. Be fully transparent If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… MEN – THIS IS YOUR CHARGE: Commit to being an EPIC LOVER.
After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had: 1. When you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.) 15. Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be. Never stop growing together The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.
“I was doing great, and then I fell in love,” James A. He had been a successful fashion fotog when he met Anne-Louise De Palo in 2003 over a video-dating service.A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit. Warren is a clinical psychologist and author of eight books on love, marriage and emotional health.Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. Don’t worry about money Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win. learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully. Don’t be an idiot And don’t be afraid of being one either. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward.