transferred the answers onto a computer punch card and fed the card into an I. was restricted to the Upper East Side, an early sexual-revolution testing ground. Women were asked to look at a trio of sketches of men in various settings, and to say where they’d prefer to find their ideal man: in camp chopping wood, in a studio painting a canvas, or in a garage working a pillar drill. 1400 Series computer, which then spit out your matches: five blue cards, if you were a woman, or five pink ones, if you were a man.Before we get down to the nitty, gritty can we just agree that not all Jamaican men, or all men in general for that matter, are the same.Just as soon as you think you have a group of people pegged, that’s when someone will flip it on you.He says that, in the past, he's dated girls who are just as confused."I've come to this conclusion: If I ask you out, or if you ask me out, and it's just the two of us, and we're doing something at a set time (like grabbing dinner or brunch or heading to a movie or a museum), then it's a date.I feel like it's important to be clear because then everyone knows what to expect. Likewise, if she asks me out somewhere, I'm considering it a date.
One thing's for sure: They can't stand "in-betweeners."So … We asked guys what a date really is, how they know if they're just "hanging out", and what they look forward to when it comes to spending time with someone they're interested in. Jake, 26, says he spends a lot of time arguing with himself over what's a date versus what's not a date.You go to a noisy bar and expect to get to know someone new, when all you really wind up with is uninteresting small talk.We don’t take the time to get to really know people anymore and that’s why you see relationships and marriages failing at a 50 percent clip.And in my short life, there are few things I’ve picked up when it comes to relationship dynamics.So if you’re thinking about dating a Jamaican man or you just want to be entertained for the next couple of slides, let’s dive in.